All things are made clear with time: you cannot be an ally and see the pain and suffering of another and make a choice to not act. In fact, making a choice to not speak out and making choices to stay within the diseased situation (for self gain) means you are poisoned and cannot be trusted. Your inability and inaction to speak equally causes pain and suffering, same as the oppressor. Just as they came for me and others, some day they will come for you.
Remember: it is always better to speak because we were never meant to survive."